THE UNIQUELY
BRIGHT LIFELAB
The online learning and coaching club for
bright, uniquely wired families
Join 1,000+ parents of kids and teens, and adults learning to ease the struggle, unlock potential, and build lives that actually work for their unique minds.
For families navigating ADHD, anxiety, autism level 1, dyslexia, giftedness -- or simply an unconventional mind craving clarity, calm, and deeper meaning.
Uniquely Bright Life is HSA/FSA eligible. See how.
Use Your HSA/FSA
Funds To Join
You may be able to use your pre-tax Health Savings Account (HSA) or Flexible Spending Account (FSA) to cover your Uniquely Bright LifeLab membership.
Two easy ways:
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Pay directly with your HSA/FSA card. At checkout, simply enter the card provided by your plan (often looks like a credit or debit card from your HSA/FSA provider).
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Pay and get reimbursed. Use your regular credit card at checkout, then follow your plan’s instructions to submit for reimbursement. If your plan requires a Letter of Medical Necessity, you can download our form here and ask your provider to sign it.
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Please check with your HSA/FSA provider to confirm eligibility.
TRUSTED BY HUNDREDS OF MEMBERS
A Community For Parents of bright & quirky kids and Teens
And Uniquely wired adults building A Life They Love
Built to save you time | Research Backed | Expert Led | Strengths Based
introducing the LifeLab online learning community,
Designed for the whole family
Because most families with a uniquely wired child also have a parent, sibling, or relative with similar wiring. We bring everyone under one supportive roof — so you can thrive together.
Why Families Love The LifeLab
saves you time, money, and heartache!
Most uniquely wired families spend thousands of dollars and countless hours each year — therapy, tutors, endless Googling — trying to figure out what works.
Other programs focus on: Only one diagnosis, only one family member. The LifeLab focuses on: The most common form of neurodivergence all at once, the whole family all at once.
The LifeLab offers you the most effective, research-backed insights, habits, and life hacks for uniquely wired minds, through our Self Scientist Living method.
all guided by top psychologists and educators, and curated especially for bright families like yours.
Some of the Top Experts You’ll Learn From:
Research Backed
What Makes The LifeLab different?
We created the Self Scientist Living method to help families move from friction to flow -- without burnout, confusion, or shame. Inside the LifeLab, you'll learn how to:
Focus on Your Growth Zones
Spot where the biggest challenges are showing up -- so you can focus your energy where it matters most.
Build 1% Gains
Make small, sustainable changes that stick -- and stack into real momentum.
Climb the Thrive Scale
Track what's actually working and keep growing toward 8+ in the most important areas of life.
Become a Self-Scientist
Use curiosity, experimentation, and real-time feedback to design systems that work for your family's wiring.
Apply Research to Real Life
Through our framework of Applied Neurodivergent Thriving, you'll turn cutting-edge psychology into practical, everyday tools that make life better -- at home, school, and work.
Activate the Trifecta of Support
Content. Coaching. Community. Everything you need to move forward with confidence.
What You’ll Get Inside the LifeLab
Expert Workshops + Live Q&A
Learn from world-class psychologists and educators -- then apply insights to your real-life challenges.
400+ Video Library + Smart Search
Find exactly what you need, when you need it. No more guessing or Googling.
Monthly Friction Audits
Track how things are going across your family's 8 growth Zones, from executive function and anxiety to emotional regulation, social life, and school.
Group Coaching & Ask Me Anything
Get personalized guidance on what matters most, from licensed specialists, many of whom have lived neurodivergent experience.
Daily Ask the Coaches Forum
Ask your questions anytime and get thoughtful, research-infomed responses that actually help.
Private Members-Only Community
Feel understood. Connect with thoughtful parents and adults who truly get it. No long explanations needed.
Weekly Coffee & Connection Groups
Gather in small, welcoming circles to share, reflect, and support each other. Just show up as you are, from anywhere in the world.
It’s Not About How Smart You Are.It’s About having the right tools, the right guidance, and the right experiments.
Many bright, uniquely wired kids, teens, and adults start to believe they're not capable...not motivated... or not worth helping.
The truth?
They were just missing the roadmap.
In the LifeLab, you'll build that roadmap step-by-step, at your pace, with expert support.
Inside the LifeLab
You'll start to see:
More done, with less stress
Less anxiety, overwhelm, and reactivity
More calm, clarity, and connection
Greater confidence in parenting and adulting
A new level of insight into your (or your child's) unique wiring
A warm, curious community that values deep ideas and real progress.
Climb the Thrive Scale with 3 Simple Steps
3 Simple Steps:
Complete the Friction Audit & Strengths Map
Quickly spot where your family is soaring and struggling, so you know exactly where to focus next.
Become a Self-Scientist
Experiment with strategies tailored to your wiring and track your progress.
Clarify & Soar
Refine what's working with expert guidance and peer connection, and keep climbing.
Join the LifeLab Today
Select the tier that fits your family best:
Monthly Membership
$68/month
charged monthly. cancel anytime
Full access to all expert content, coaching, and community
Cancel anytime -- no commitment
Start easing the struggle today
Annual Membership
$680/year
best value -- Save 2 Months!
Safety net of trusted coaches and peers year-round
Priority access to seasonal events
Best for families ready to commit to thriving year-round
FREQUENTLY ASKED
QUESTIONS
What if we’re not gifted?
Most members have never had formal IQ testing. If you see your family in the description -- bright, curious, and sometimes struggling, you're in the right place.
Can we use HSA or FSA funds?
Many families do. Check with your plan. It's best if you apply within 24 hours of joining the LifeLab.
What if I change my mind?
You can cancel anytime. Your membership will remain active until the end of your billing period and won't renew.
Still have questions?
We’re here to help. Email support@brightandquirky.com anytime.
MEET YOUR GUIDE
Debbie Steinberg, LMFT is a licensed therapist, educator, and founder of Uniquely Bright Life (formerly Bright & Quirky). She created the Self-Scientist Method™ and Applied Neurodivergent Thriving™ to help uniquely wired families — navigating ADHD, autism level 1, dyslexia, anxiety, giftedness, and executive function challenges — ease the struggle and unlock their potential. Her work has helped thousands of families through the Bright & Quirky Summits, the Uniquely Bright LifeLab membership, and by speaking at institutions like Harvard, Stanford, and Deloitte. Debbie was recently inducted into the Cognitive Diversity Hall of Fame. She began this work over 15 years ago, in her private practice near Seattle, supporting families — often with parents working in high-tech environments like Microsoft and Amazon — and soon discovered these “uniquely bright” families live all over the world. Today, she continues to gather the world’s leading experts to support the strengths and struggles of every uniquely wired mind in the Uniquely Bright LifeLab.